Friday, April 12, 2013

5 Reasons Why Falling In Love Is So Hard

1. Labels terrify some people and uncertainty terrifies others.

For whatever reason, modern dating has become a foggy, confusing, vague limbo in which people are together when they’re physically together, but unclear what they are if they have so much as a wall between them. See, commitment issues or some ulterior motives keep many beating around the bush of “official.” They’ll avoid discussing or accepting any type of label by any means necessary. As a result, the other person involved is a confused, uncertain guy or gal, often left feeling fearful and uncomfortable, not knowing if that’s the person they’re WITH, or the person they’re with right now. Two scared people doesn’t result in one, successful love.

2. We see people getting screwed over so often.

It’s hard to trust anyone these days, and that stuff is kind of important in the preservation of a relationship. You’ve got to fully believe in the person you’re with, because you certainly can’t rely on home wrecking or unknowing folks to preserve your relationship, and refrain from attempting to get involved with your significant other. Friends, acquaintances, enemies, even family members have been a part of cheating scandals – we truly see it all these days. You simply have to have faith in the person you’re with to be loyal to you. I see some people who don’t trust their boyfriend or girlfriend in a room alone with their puppy, much less fighting off the temptation of another human being. Trust issues turn some people off, and so many people have them as a result of past experiences.

3. Some people are so, unbelievably shallow.

You can’t jump into the deep end with someone who’s swimming in the shallow. I mean, you can, but I wouldn’t recommend it. If someone is all about looks, they may lust for you, but if you have serious feelings on your side, that’s a recipe for disaster. Anyone who can be turned off enough to terminate a connection because of body hair, weight, or aesthetics in general isn’t worthy of you to begin with. Unfortunately, being well aware that so many people care so much about appearances can make a person extra cautious. There are just so many ridiculous body expectations enforced by shallow people that make others hate themselves and have no confidence, which can become an impediment in the process of love.

4. Quitting is easier than fixing.

Relationships can take a lot of work and unfortunately people aren’t always willing to put in effort, resulting in breakups over the tiniest qualms and minutiae. Maybe people have watched so many movies that they’ve come to believe love should start out amazing, then in act two there’s a little bit of drama, but after that’s hashed out, everything is just peachy. Couples disagree. They argue, they get annoyed and exhausted of one another’s BS, and they have struggles, but life isn’t a Nicholas Sparks novel. If two people want to be with each other, shouldn’t the concept of splitting up be eliminated all together? It should never even be an option. Breaking up shouldn’t be done every other week. Relationships, like many other things, require maintenance and an effort.

5. Because falling in love isn’t hard at all. It’s the getting back up after your hearts been smashed into a million tiny pieces that’s so brutal.

In reality, falling in love with someone can happen naturally and effortlessly. It typically doesn’t go down like Family Matters, with Steve Urkel aggressively pursuing Laura for years before finally forcing an unlikely love to exist. In real life it often happens before we even have a chance to realize we’re vulnerable. If you’re a guarded person, surely you’re well aware when there’s been a security breach in the heavily protected area known as your feelings. Alarms are ringing and you’re proceeding with all of the caution, because all you can remember is how helpless you felt after the previous heartbreak. Once you know what a broken heart feels like, it’s never easy to give another person the power to put you through that same, excruciating experience.

Monday, February 4, 2013

大出血 =)

O(∩_∩)O哈哈~ 。。。哪有人大出血了还可以笑得那么开心 =.= 我一次过扫了好多东西给自己奖励自己。想想自己做工做到那么累奖励一下自己应该没有错吧?哼~不理了自己开心就好,哈哈。但是有时当我累了,不开心很想发泄情绪的时候都会想要买东西逗逗自己,hmmm..好像不是很好吼。下定决心要改掉这个坏习惯=.=
看看买了什么给自己 =) taaadaaaaa ~ 我买了了4件上衣,2件连身裙,5双鞋,2支香水,还买了pad pad4 ~ errrrr .. 感觉有点罪恶感 ,要是给奶奶和爸爸知道一次过买那么多东西一定臭骂我一顿,一定说我乱花钱。他们一定会说kelly别乱买东西噢,一个女子在外要存点钱留给自己,要疼爱自己好好照顾自己噢。

 好的~爸爸和奶奶,你们的孙女和女儿答应你们不会乱乱花钱买东西。这个农历新年还不能回去陪你们老人家吃团圆饭,原谅我的不孝,但我在这答应你们,新年过后会马上回去陪你们哦。真的好想奶奶和爸爸 =( 但是最后还是要看看我买了什么~
恋上这味道 \(^o^)/~

我的pad pad4 和 hello kitty cover ... Miao ~
最爱高跟鞋 ~

大爱长袖衣~全部都爱 never loved you .. winked winked ^_^all by BERSHKA

Sunday, February 3, 2013

希望

我只是希望在我抱怨上天吝啬的时候,有个人可以对我说,别太在意,我心疼你 ...



Friday, February 1, 2013

Forgiveness is not always easy .. At times it feels more painful than the wound we suffered , to forgive the one that inflicted it .. And yet , there is no peace without forgiveness <3

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Angry & Upset

其实你懂吗?小丽要气你什么?我气你笨气你傻。你知不知道我骂了你接下来发生什么事?你根本就不知道,干嘛要我骂你?真的很莫名奇妙,我骂了你你的心就会舒服。那我呢?你有想过吗?我很气我的心跳就会加速,会痛,会比平常跳的快很不舒服。你根本就不知道昨晚骂了你过后不能睡,心跳加速,睡觉一直压醒,甚至哭发噩梦。你懂我这样很辛苦吗?你根本就不懂,我很讨厌这种感觉,真的很讨厌😡😡!!最生气的就是你问:是不是惝礼告诉过你什么?什么吖?你这样问到底是什么意思?惝礼回台湾了我们也没联络了,什么东西都是自己在那里猜。你是猪噢,猪頭*@*
干嘛你有什么事你都要告诉我?干嘛要我骂你?你不会告诉其他人吗?你不能叫别个骂你吗?为什么一定要我呢?就是知道你不开心心情不好,想要去安慰你,但是你却要我骂你。哪有人那么变态要人骂的?你真的很讨厌很自私。
还是我的错没有告诉你我的心不能受气,气上头了心跳就会加速。你告诉我我骂了你,你心好过一点了,没事了,就叫我去睡觉。怎么睡吖?你告诉我吖?人家我对你好你不领情我不怪你,但是请你不要不开心的时候就来找我,没事的时候就忘记我了,我不需要这种人出现在我生活里面,我真的很讨厌被人当作是傻瓜。

Monday, January 21, 2013

True

I'm agree for this .....

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

New Year

In this new year i hope everyone will have a memorable day ... i wish myself as well ;D
I will wish someone will fall in love , someone will have a cake with candle , someone will move away , someone will come home , someone will finally graduate , someone will get a job , someone will born , and someone will propose to someone .. 
wow ~ how lovely is that .. 
And here , don't waste time in thinking how much u have lost .. But , thank god that he has given you yet another chance to see the briliant day of a fresh new year ~ Happy 2013 xoxo ...

Friday, December 14, 2012

Vogue Prom Night

Just around the corner in every woman's mind - is a lovely dress and a wonderful suit~



Smile =)

Men in BLACK ....

All dressed up like a KING and QUEEN

Get ready .. picha time ...

me with the two pretty ladies =)

mE and my pretty colleague ... The most prettiest ever .... and guess wat she super can drink =P

GOTCHA !!!  u guys guess ?? hmmm .. until i need to twist his ear  =P

Me and the Fatty .. lol xD ... Plz don't mind ya ..

V for VOGUE

Finally in the end v had a big FAMILY picha =)
still got lots of pic but i can't upload all at here .. u guys can view it at my FACEBOOK 

Monday, October 8, 2012

Is Me

处女座之所以活得累,是因为他们输不起,无论面对的是爱情、朋友、家人之间,处女都力求完美,所以处女只有硬撑下去,再苦再累都自己扛著。其实处女真的很脆弱,一丁点儿事情都能感慨万千痛心疾首,处女的脆弱著实让人心疼,但处女的脆弱又隐藏得之深以至於无人懂得心疼...。

其实很乖,懂得放肆之后适可而止。并不愚笨,有些事也可以做的很漂亮。怯懦不是错,只是外界太强势。别每天把讨厌自己掛在嘴边,要知道自己是独一无二的自己。喜欢了爱了,就不许后悔,别责怪自己的愚昧,只是太想被爱而已。你不坏。你不赖。你不差。你很棒。


自信起来全世界都属於自己,自卑起来自己是世界的弃儿;冲动起来没大脑,理智起来像冷血动物;爱得狂热起来连呼吸都忘了,冷淡起来对方的存在都可忽略不计;粗心起来鞋子可以穿反,细心起来可以把别人感动到哭;坚强起来走在刀尖上都不会哭,软弱起来连个决定都要问别人。

处女座最讨厌的人就是在他面前自以为是、以为魅力无穷的人,对於这种人、下场只有遭到处女座的冷言讽刺,处女座们讽刺人的技术很高的、如果他不加以控制、就算是男人也会被他说到无地自容,处女座的女生可能永远也不会知道自己想要什麼,但是她一直很清楚、她不想要的是什麼。

处女座外表温和、偶尔孩子气、内心有狂野的一面,喜欢旅游但也恋家、不算太宅,容易陷入自己的世界不能自拔、对自己在意的东西有著高度的细腻敏感、对於不入眼的东西有著高度的冷漠绝情,自我保护欲强。

与处女座闹小彆扭时,希望对方一定要先站出来,处女座的女生很倔,即使很喜欢你,很想再听你声音,她也会忍著不打电话给你,这时候她是非常难受的,她一直在期待手机萤幕裡出现你的名字,能看到你打来的电话,传来的讯息。处女座的另一半的,请包容处女座。你们懂的,她其实很在意你!

处女座不容易喜欢上一个人。有人说处女座对伴侣的要求太高,其实并非这样,处女座注重的是感觉。只是那麼轻描淡写的一眼,那个人已经吸引了处女座的所有注意力,从此目光便无法转移。用一秒鐘爱上一个人,然后再付出一生去忘记,处女座就是这样的爱情试验品。

处女座的人需要慢慢相处,因为处女座是个被动的星座、慢热的星座、放不开的星座。认识的时间越久对你越好,如果你喜欢处女座的人、他却不喜欢你,频频接触的结果只会让他对你越来越冷淡。处女座喜欢和喜欢的人斗斗嘴、却不会大声吵架,你想吵,可以、处女座只会转身走人。处女座很慢热、很冷漠、很直接讨厌转弯,不喜欢说话、也不喜欢太吵的环境。喜欢自由的感觉、讨厌囉嗦、心智很成熟,看事情很透彻很绝、需要以行动来证明对他的在乎 。。

难过

为什么什么事都要我自己一个人受到完?突然觉得好难过,好像没人懂自己一样。做什么事情都是自己一个人,要找个人懂自己的真的好难,快要受不了
了-_-这个时间又不能入睡,干脆不用睡更好了。好难过,好难过,没人懂我=(

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

这就是我


容易心软;处处女很愛逞強;坚强下的脆弱,把一切的辛酸眼淚全留給自己;自尊心強;受過的伤比誰都痛;率真,往往傷害到的不是別人,而是自己;寬容大度;处处天生異性緣好,特別重視朋友;重视家人;更重视她爱的人對於感情愛憎分明。这就是我~觉得好猪噢

处女座的我 ~


处女座的人请不要轻易宣战,因为冷战对处处的伤害,超出你的预计。请记住处处喜欢你,哪怕她情绪化 的说出伤害你的话,她只想你宠她,想你抱她,哪怕没有道歉。所以只要你喜欢她,请你接受她的情绪化,只要你喜欢她,就请你喜欢她的一切。她所有的小性子所 有的坏脾气其实都是在撒娇 〜

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

So sweet

❤Kiss on the Forehead: We are cute together ❤
❤ Kiss on the Shoulder: Your perfect.❤
❤Kiss on the Cheek: We are friends.❤
❤ Kiss on the Neck: I want you, now.❤
❤Kiss on the Hand: I adore you.❤
❤Kiss on the Lips: I love you.❤

Monday, October 1, 2012

Imma Virgo

處女是孤獨的,從來不喜歡和別人搶東西,希望在身邊的人都是心甘情願的留下來。人來人往中,要讓處女對一個人上心不容易,初接觸處女的人都被他那種不冷不熱的態度嚇走了。但真正走進處女心裏的人,就會發現,處女對人好起來是沒有底線的~

Sunday, September 30, 2012

Weekend

周末了,平平淡淡,慢慢的,懒懒的,一个人过,幸好还有你在网上陪伴着我,我也不觉得孤单。有时候,一个人想要的只是一只可握的手和一颗理解的心。但是,不懂的自爱的人,更本没能力去爱别人。这点,明白的人并不多。但是做得到的那对情人,就要好好的爱下去噢 ^_^

真真的爱是接受,不是忍受、是支持,不是支配、是慰问,不是质问、真正的爱,要道谢也要道歉,要体贴也要体谅,要认错也要改错。真正的爱,不是彼此凝视,而是共同沿着同一方向望去。其实,爱不是寻找一个完美的人。而是,要学会用完美的眼光,欣赏一个并不完美的人。

在这祝大家又个美好的中秋节夜晚噢 =)

爱情



对于爱情,年龄不是差距,财富不是障碍,距离不是问题。心里有爱的人,什么都可以跨越的。但要让女人等待,就必须要给她勇气。如果你认为女人只迷恋高富帅熟,只钟爱别墅豪车,那你就错了,她要的只是一份单纯的执着,一个确定的希望〜

Friday, September 21, 2012

惊喜 =)


 我的生日已画上美丽的句号啦 v(^_^v)♪在这里要谢谢贝贝,他给了我一个很大很大的惊喜,感动到还把我弄哭了:'(真的很讨厌 ~哈哈,讨厌是说笑而已啦~他人吖身在美国那么远还不忘送花给我,还送去我公司给我真的超感动的 ~我做着工的时候无端端同事叫我说外面有人找我叫我出去,怎知一打开门就看见一束开得很美的玫瑰花在我面前,那一刻真的吓坏我了,心想谁会送花给我呢,拿回进公司一打开卡看见写着贝贝zip的那一刻我就忍不住要哭了:'(你还告诉我一朵代表一岁,哎唷~这样人家不就懂我几岁了嘛 (>_<) 哈哈...不过我懂你是要哄我开心的,这一次是我一生过得最快乐最快乐的生日~所以我愿所有的快乐、所有的幸福、所有的温馨、所有的好运围在你身边~谢谢贝贝❤❤❤
感觉幸福❤

猪~生日快乐~\(≧▽≦)/~

贝贝送我的花❀❀❀


My Birthday ~

The Birthday Gal with her cake -.- lol

Muackss muackss

Thx all of u ~ love ya all ❤

Thursday, August 9, 2012

Myself~ing

I love myself for me ❤ Everyone is beautiful and perfect in their own way ~ Don't let anyone tell you different ~!

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

My dream man =)


My man ♥ he is so so sooo handsome xD ,, Meet him at Universal Studio @ Singapore

A little gift to myself ♥

送给我自己一份小小的礼物 ♥ 可爱吗?它像什么呀?

Monday, May 14, 2012

Twinkle Lullaby



人的一生中充满了不完美,但这不完美中却隐藏着幸福,也许这就叫做知足吧 ❤                                                                                                                            

What women wants

Boys will break your heart , Real MAN will pick up the pieces

Hang out with bitchy ~













Act like a PRINCESS , Look like a BARBIE , Smoke like MARLEY , Party like KESHA =)