1. Labels terrify some people and uncertainty terrifies others.
For whatever reason, modern dating has become a foggy, confusing, vague limbo in which people are together when they’re physically together, but unclear what they are if they have so much as a wall between them. See, commitment issues or some ulterior motives keep many beating around the bush of “official.” They’ll avoid discussing or accepting any type of label by any means necessary. As a result, the other person involved is a confused, uncertain guy or gal, often left feeling fearful and uncomfortable, not knowing if that’s the person they’re WITH, or the person they’re with right now. Two scared people doesn’t result in one, successful love.
2. We see people getting screwed over so often.
It’s hard to trust anyone these days, and that stuff is kind of important in the preservation of a relationship. You’ve got to fully believe in the person you’re with, because you certainly can’t rely on home wrecking or unknowing folks to preserve your relationship, and refrain from attempting to get involved with your significant other. Friends, acquaintances, enemies, even family members have been a part of cheating scandals – we truly see it all these days. You simply have to have faith in the person you’re with to be loyal to you. I see some people who don’t trust their boyfriend or girlfriend in a room alone with their puppy, much less fighting off the temptation of another human being. Trust issues turn some people off, and so many people have them as a result of past experiences.
3. Some people are so, unbelievably shallow.
You can’t jump into the deep end with someone who’s swimming in the shallow. I mean, you can, but I wouldn’t recommend it. If someone is all about looks, they may lust for you, but if you have serious feelings on your side, that’s a recipe for disaster. Anyone who can be turned off enough to terminate a connection because of body hair, weight, or aesthetics in general isn’t worthy of you to begin with. Unfortunately, being well aware that so many people care so much about appearances can make a person extra cautious. There are just so many ridiculous body expectations enforced by shallow people that make others hate themselves and have no confidence, which can become an impediment in the process of love.
4. Quitting is easier than fixing.
Relationships can take a lot of work and unfortunately people aren’t always willing to put in effort, resulting in breakups over the tiniest qualms and minutiae. Maybe people have watched so many movies that they’ve come to believe love should start out amazing, then in act two there’s a little bit of drama, but after that’s hashed out, everything is just peachy. Couples disagree. They argue, they get annoyed and exhausted of one another’s BS, and they have struggles, but life isn’t a Nicholas Sparks novel. If two people want to be with each other, shouldn’t the concept of splitting up be eliminated all together? It should never even be an option. Breaking up shouldn’t be done every other week. Relationships, like many other things, require maintenance and an effort.
5. Because falling in love isn’t hard at all. It’s the getting back up after your hearts been smashed into a million tiny pieces that’s so brutal.
In reality, falling in love with someone can happen naturally and effortlessly. It typically doesn’t go down like Family Matters, with Steve Urkel aggressively pursuing Laura for years before finally forcing an unlikely love to exist. In real life it often happens before we even have a chance to realize we’re vulnerable. If you’re a guarded person, surely you’re well aware when there’s been a security breach in the heavily protected area known as your feelings. Alarms are ringing and you’re proceeding with all of the caution, because all you can remember is how helpless you felt after the previous heartbreak. Once you know what a broken heart feels like, it’s never easy to give another person the power to put you through that same, excruciating experience.
Friday, April 12, 2013
5 Reasons Why Falling In Love Is So Hard
标签: A part of me, Life, love
Monday, February 4, 2013
大出血 =)
O(∩_∩)O哈哈~ 。。。哪有人大出血了还可以笑得那么开心 =.= 我一次过扫了好多东西给自己奖励自己。想想自己做工做到那么累奖励一下自己应该没有错吧?哼~不理了自己开心就好,哈哈。但是有时当我累了,不开心很想发泄情绪的时候都会想要买东西逗逗自己,hmmm..好像不是很好吼。下定决心要改掉这个坏习惯=.=
看看买了什么给自己 =) taaadaaaaa ~ 我买了了4件上衣,2件连身裙,5双鞋,2支香水,还买了pad pad4 ~ errrrr .. 感觉有点罪恶感 ,要是给奶奶和爸爸知道一次过买那么多东西一定臭骂我一顿,一定说我乱花钱。他们一定会说kelly别乱买东西噢,一个女子在外要存点钱留给自己,要疼爱自己好好照顾自己噢。
恋上这味道 \(^o^)/~ |
我的pad pad4 和 hello kitty cover ... Miao ~ |
最爱高跟鞋 ~ |
大爱长袖衣~全部都爱 never loved you .. winked winked ^_^all by BERSHKA |
标签: Every part of me, my stuff
Sunday, February 3, 2013
Friday, February 1, 2013
❤
Forgiveness is not always easy .. At times it feels more painful than the wound we suffered , to forgive the one that inflicted it .. And yet , there is no peace without forgiveness <3
发贴者 kelly bb 时间: 12:45 AM 0 评论
标签: A part of me, Hard time
Tuesday, January 29, 2013
Angry & Upset
其实你懂吗?小丽要气你什么?我气你笨气你傻。你知不知道我骂了你接下来发生什么事?你根本就不知道,干嘛要我骂你?真的很莫名奇妙,我骂了你你的心就会舒服。那我呢?你有想过吗?我很气我的心跳就会加速,会痛,会比平常跳的快很不舒服。你根本就不知道昨晚骂了你过后不能睡,心跳加速,睡觉一直压醒,甚至哭发噩梦。你懂我这样很辛苦吗?你根本就不懂,我很讨厌这种感觉,真的很讨厌😡😡!!最生气的就是你问:是不是惝礼告诉过你什么?什么吖?你这样问到底是什么意思?惝礼回台湾了我们也没联络了,什么东西都是自己在那里猜。你是猪噢,猪頭*@*
干嘛你有什么事你都要告诉我?干嘛要我骂你?你不会告诉其他人吗?你不能叫别个骂你吗?为什么一定要我呢?就是知道你不开心心情不好,想要去安慰你,但是你却要我骂你。哪有人那么变态要人骂的?你真的很讨厌很自私。
还是我的错没有告诉你我的心不能受气,气上头了心跳就会加速。你告诉我我骂了你,你心好过一点了,没事了,就叫我去睡觉。怎么睡吖?你告诉我吖?人家我对你好你不领情我不怪你,但是请你不要不开心的时候就来找我,没事的时候就忘记我了,我不需要这种人出现在我生活里面,我真的很讨厌被人当作是傻瓜。
Monday, January 21, 2013
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
New Year
In this new year i hope everyone will have a memorable day ... i wish myself as well ;D
I will wish someone will fall in love , someone will have a cake with candle , someone will move away , someone will come home , someone will finally graduate , someone will get a job , someone will born , and someone will propose to someone ..
wow ~ how lovely is that ..
And here , don't waste time in thinking how much u have lost .. But , thank god that he has given you yet another chance to see the briliant day of a fresh new year ~ Happy 2013 xoxo ...
Friday, December 14, 2012
Vogue Prom Night
Just around the corner in every woman's mind - is a lovely dress and a wonderful suit~ |
Smile =) |
Men in BLACK .... |
All dressed up like a KING and QUEEN |
Get ready .. picha time ... |
me with the two pretty ladies =) |
mE and my pretty colleague ... The most prettiest ever .... and guess wat she super can drink =P |
GOTCHA !!! u guys guess ?? hmmm .. until i need to twist his ear =P |
Me and the Fatty .. lol xD ... Plz don't mind ya .. |
V for VOGUE |
Finally in the end v had a big FAMILY picha =) still got lots of pic but i can't upload all at here .. u guys can view it at my FACEBOOK |
发贴者 kelly bb 时间: 11:48 PM 0 评论
标签: Every part of me, Fun, Happiness
Monday, October 8, 2012
Is Me
标签: Every part of me, Lifes
难过
为什么什么事都要我自己一个人受到完?突然觉得好难过,好像没人懂自己一样。做什么事情都是自己一个人,要找个人懂自己的真的好难,快要受不了
了-_-这个时间又不能入睡,干脆不用睡更好了。好难过,好难过,没人懂我=(
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
这就是我
容易心软;处处女很愛逞強; |
标签: Every part of me
处女座的我 ~
标签: Every part of me
Tuesday, October 2, 2012
So sweet
Monday, October 1, 2012
Imma Virgo
處女是孤獨的,從來不喜歡和別人搶東西,希望在身邊的人都是心甘情願的留下來。人來人往中,要讓處女對一個人上心不容易,初接觸處女的人都被他那種不冷不熱的態度嚇走了。但真正走進處女心裏的人,就會發現,處女對人好起來是沒有底線的~ |
标签: Every part of me
Sunday, September 30, 2012
Weekend
周末了,平平淡淡,慢慢的,懒懒的,一个人过,幸好还有你在网上陪伴着我,我也不觉得孤单。有时候,一个人想要的只是一只可握的手和一颗理解的心。但是,不懂的自爱的人,更本没能力去爱别人。这点,明白的人并不多。但是做得到的那对情人,就要好好的爱下去噢 ^_^
真真的爱是接受,不是忍受、是支持,不是支配、是慰问,不是质问、真正的爱,要道谢也要道歉,要体贴也要体谅,要认错也要改错。真正的爱,不是彼此凝视,而是共同沿着同一方向望去。其实,爱不是寻找一个完美的人。而是,要学会用完美的眼光,欣赏一个并不完美的人。
在这祝大家又个美好的中秋节夜晚噢 =)
标签: Every part of me
爱情
对于爱情,年龄不是差距,财富不是障碍,距离不是问题。心里有爱的人,什么都可以跨越的。但要让女人等待,就必须要给她勇气。如果你认为女人只迷恋高富帅熟,只钟爱别墅豪车,那你就错了,她要的只是一份单纯的执着,一个确定的希望〜 |
标签: Every part of me
Friday, September 21, 2012
惊喜 =)
我的生日已画上美丽的句号啦 v(^_^v)♪在这里要谢谢贝贝,他给了我一个很大很
感觉幸福❤ |
猪~生日快乐~\(≧▽≦)/~ |
贝贝送我的花❀❀❀ |